Family

Three roots build the whole family: pari parent, nino child, and maris marry. Everyone else is a compound of those, or a short chain of them.

Family roots

Pikotika	Meaning
pari	a parent, parents
nino	a child, children; offspring
maris	to marry; married
vema	a woman; female
viro	a man; male
men	a group

The close family

Pikotika	Literally	Meaning
parimen	parent-group	family, relative, relatives
pari	parent	a parent, parents
vemapari	woman-parent	mother
viropari	man-parent	father
nino	child	child, children
vemanino	woman-child	daughter; girl
vironino	man-child	son; boy
novanino	new-child	baby
sampariomo	same-parent-person	brother or sister, sibling
samparivema	same-parent-woman	sister
sampariviro	same-parent-man	brother
marisomo	marry-person	spouse
marisvema	marry-woman	wife
marisviro	marry-man	husband
paripari	parent-parent	grandparent
ninonino	child-child	grandchild
vetuspari	old-parent	ancestors

The words without vema or viro are the everyday ones. Add a gender root when helps distinguish which person you're referring to, or in cases (like sampariomo) where the gender-neutral word is no easier. Also remember that in Pikotika, nouns serve as both singular and plural.

Pikotika	Meaning
Tu pari ri kermoto?	How are your parents?
Tisomo ri eko samparivema.	She's my sister.
Eko ri pipe a arpoaku kum eko viropari.	I drink tea with my father.
Eko vetuspari ri vons Itaria.	My ancestors are from Italy.

Older and younger

Pikotika	Literally	Meaning
anyomeka	year-big	old
anyopiko	year-small	young
mas anyomeka samparivema	more year-big same-parent-woman	an older sister
mas anyopiko sampariviro	more year-small same-parent-man	a younger brother
piko nino	small child	the little one, the youngest

Pikotika	Meaning
Tu anyoturan ri ker?	How old are you?
Eko anyoturan ri 34.	I'm 34 years old.
Tu nino anyoturan ri ker?	How old are your children?
Eko ri mas anyomeka vons pan.	I'm the oldest.
Mas anyomeka nino ri impar in mekaimparroko.	The older child is studying at university.

Everyone else is a chain

There are no separate words for aunts, cousins or in-laws. Name the path instead, one step at a time — a possessive is just a modifier, so the steps stack like eko viropari kase ‘my father's house’.

Pikotika	Meaning
eko pari sampariomo	my parent's sibling — an aunt or uncle
eko vemapari samparivema	my mother's sister
eko viropari sampariviro	my father's brother
eko sampariomo nino	my sibling's child — a niece or nephew
eko vemapari pari	my mother's parents — grandparents on my mother's side
eko marisomo pari	my spouse's parents — my in-laws
eko marisomo sampariviro	my spouse's brother — a brother-in-law
eko nino marisomo	my child's spouse — a son- or daughter-in-law

A cousin is one step longer — the child of a parent's sibling — and it is one of the few places where te earns its keep:

Do you know my relative, Mary? She's my cousin.

Tu ri sape a eko parimen Meri, ker? Tisomo ri eko pari sampariomo te nino.

Note that parimen can refer to "relatives" as a group, or to an individual relative. It's the common word that can be used to refer to any family member, direct or extended; or casually, it might even be used for friends who are so close they feel like family.

Asking about family

Pikotika	Meaning
Tu ri tene a nino, ker?	Do you have children?
Si, eko ri tene a pits nino.	Yes, I have two.
Wun vironino kum wun vemanino.	A son and a daughter.
Eko vemanino ri novanino sista.	My daughter is still a baby.
Eko ri tene a nem nino.	I don't have children.
Tu ri tene a ker mesur sampariomo?	How many brothers and sisters do you have?
Eko ri tene a nem sampariomo.	I'm an only child (I have no siblings).
Tu parimen ri viva in kerroko?	Where does your family live?
Tisyan, eko ri sarve a tu parimen.	Today I'm meeting your relatives.

How they are doing — Tu nino ri kermoto? — is on Small talk.

Who looks like whom

Pikotika	Literally	Meaning
samvite	same-see	to look like
Pits tu ri non samvite!	two you RI not same-see	You two don't look alike!

She looks like our father, and I look like our mother.

Tisomo ri samvite a ekomen viropari, sets eko ri samvite a vemapari.

Marriage

Pikotika	Literally	Meaning
marisyan	marry-day	a wedding
anyoyan	year-day	an anniversary
vivayan	life-day	a birthday

Pikotika	Meaning
Tu ri maris, ker?	Are you married?
Si. Tisomo ri eko marisomo Popu.	Yes. This is my husband, Bob.
Eko ri non maris.	I'm not married.
Ekomen ri maris vin in 10 anyo turan.	We've been married for ten years.
Tar anyo, ekomen ri maris.	We're getting married next year.
Ekomen maris anyoyan ri in tar mese.	Our wedding anniversary is next month.
Yer nemyan, eko ri ire ver eko ami marisyan.	Last night I went to my friend's wedding.

A whole conversation

Alice shows Bob a picture on her phone.

	Pikotika	English
	Popu: Tis ri tu parimen, ker?	Bob: Is this your family?
	Aras: Si! Tis ri eko viropari kum eko vemapari.	Alice: Yes! These are my father and mother.
	Popu: Kum tisomo ri keromo?	Bob: And who's this?
	Aras: Tisomo ri eko mas anyomeka samparivema Meri.	Alice: That's my older sister, Mary.
	Popu: Pits tu ri non samvite!	Bob: You two don't look alike!
	Aras: Ves. Tisomo ri samvite a ekomen viropari, sets eko ri samvite a vemapari.	Alice: True. She looks like our father, and I look like our mother.
	Popu: Meri ri maris, ker?	Bob: Is Mary married?
	Aras: Si. Tis ri tisomo marisviro kum tisomo nino.	Alice: Yes. That's her husband, and her kids.
	Popu: Nino anyoturan ri ker?	Bob: How old are they?
	Aras: Vironino anyoturan ri 6, kum vemanino ri novanino sista.	Alice: The boy is six, and the girl is still a baby.
	Aras: Kum tu, ker? Tu ri tene a sampariomo, ker?	Alice: And you? Do you have brothers or sisters?
	Popu: Non, eko ri tene a nem. Sets eko ri tene a mur pari sampariomo.	Bob: No, none. But I have lots of aunts and uncles.
	Aras: Tu parimen ri meka!	Alice: Your family is big!
	Popu: Si. Tar senseyan, pan parimen ri ire ver eko paripari vivayan.	Bob: It is. Next week the whole family is going to my grandma's birthday.
	Aras: Pam tika a pona vivayan ver tisomo!	Alice: Wish her a happy birthday from me!

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